First off, I think I am going to try to start posting every Sunday. That seems to be my most regular free day. So stay tuned for regular updates!!!! Ideally it will be mostly fun, exciting tales of every day life, but life isn’t always sunshine and roses. I’ve gotta take the good with the bad, so I’ll share what I can with you!
I have had a lot of changes lately, so far all for the better, which is exciting and finally gives me time to breathe! I did call McDonald’s and ask if I can be put back on the schedule. They said yes in a heartbeat and I went straight into full time manager training! Not my career choice, but it is pretty simple work that pays the bills! Speaking of bills, I moved out of my apartment and am living with my friends, Matt and Abel! That really cuts down on the bills!!! Trying to save a little money! Still need to get the Jeep repaired, but it will take a month in the shop! I might try driving for Uber a bit too. My friend says that is pretty good money!
Life is still improving, and I’m trying to enjoy it rather than just waiting for the next foot to fall. I guess now that it is June, I can give a few details about this amazing man that I have in my life still. His name is Kyle. We met out dancing one night. He is the definition of a gentleman and makes me realize why no other relationship has worked out before. Ladies, there are men out there who are perfect! Wait for him! One of my friends just went through a breakup and I love her response! She told me that she “can’t keep begging to keep someone around when God is taking them away! I don’t wanna miss my real husband.” Kyle and I aren’t even close to talking about marriage yet, but I am here to tell everyone that you should never settle for less than absolutely perfect! Keeping that in mind though, a great man will not be great to you if you don’t deserve it. These great men (they do seem to be pretty rare) deserve to have great women too.
Braedyn’s foot has healed so well! There is just a scar now, but he still limps a bit from habit. Sophia has two VERY wiggly teeth on the bottom! They are both having a great summer so far. I think we might visit the zoo soon! Definitely need to go camping.
So, remember that amazing job that I interviewed for, but unfortunately didn’t get? Well, they called me this past week! There is another position that was opening up soon and they WANTED me to apply for it!!!! The day the position was posted externally I applied and called them to let them know. He said that he will call to schedule an interview as soon as he hears from HR! I am so excited, but trying not to get too excited again! Time will tell!!! Hopefully that will be in my next update!
Single momma life has just been getting harder and harder. I didn’t get that job I was really hoping for. I am still applying everywhere else that I can though! Not quitting!!! Finances are ridiculously tight right now. I have to figure out how to pay my rent by myself when we were only able to afford it by having multiple incomes in the house. I’m not eligible for any assistance because I’m not actually homeless. I am also trying to limit my work hours to school hours for now so I don’t have to pay a babysitter very much. I worked at McDonald’s before. I might just try to go back to that. It is at least something and I could pay the bills with that and Hallmark. I would have to sacrifice really any kind of social life and pray the babysitter could do overnights. I can do this!!!! What’s a little rain but something to make you appreciate the sunshine more, right?
So on to the pouring. My best friend, Arianna, had a sleepover last night since we both were scheduled to close tonight. We got some Teddy’s Bigger Burgers for lunch (amazingly delicious btw). We couldn’t stay long though because I had a meeting with Sophia’s teachers (concerned about a possible speech delay, which has been a long time concern). As we leave to go to the kids’ school, some young (18 year old) kid in a Ford F150 crashes right into the driver’s side of my nice pretty Jeep! Hit me hard enough to spin my Jeep 180°!!! There went my Tuesday, along with the possibility of me working, the door handle to my Jeep, and my poor tire that was just replaced!!! After a couple hours and a few dozen phone calls, my Jeep was towed away and Arianna and I were back at my house. She was ok and found a ride to work. I got the kids from school, rescheduled the meeting with Sophia’s teachers, and walked across the street to the ER. I am so sore!!! My elbow, neck, back, shoulder, and knee are all throbbing to various degrees. Thankfully they said nothing is broken and I should be ok within a couple days. Hopefully my Jeep gets fixed quickly! Until then we will have a rental car and take it easy!!!!
Now about that sunshine!!! The weather of course in Hawaii is most of the time wonderful! I was going to try to get a tattoo this week, but that will definitely be put on hold now. Most of my sunshine now, besides from my munchkins, comes from the most amazing man I have had the pleasure to accidentally meet. I love spending time with him. He makes everything so easy. I am calm and peaceful arou d him and it is so natural to be with him and be myself. More details to come!!! There is a lot going on but I have to focus on some positives!
Since I am now living life as a single momma to my amazing little munchkins, I have been applying to jobs like crazy!!!! I have a BS in Biology, but except for school, I have been too nervous to venture out into the career world of science. Being quite suddenly thrust on my own has changed that!!! I have applied to pretty much any job that I have come across. The ranges from service workers at hotels to restaurant servers to dental assistants and lab techs. I am almost just about willing to take any job that would be full-time and pay enough money to cover all my bills.
Monday morning, March 27th, I got a call first thing out of bed asking me to come in for an interview the next day. This position was as a cytology assistant at a lab here on Oahu. I went to the interview and think it went really well! This position would be absolutely perfect!!!! I don’t want to go into too many details, but I am hoping really hard!!!! I should know by the end of the week! Wish me luck and send good vibes!!! I’ll keep you posted!!!
We took an amazing hike on March 17, 2016!!! We walked the entire way up the Koko Crater Railway Trail, totaling between 1000 and 1100 stairs!!! We even brought our dog, Maui, and he loved it! Sophia walked all the way up to the top and pretty much the entire way down all by herself with little to no complaints! I held her hand for most of the way down, simply because of the steepness of the stairs, but she wasn’t carried or pampered and did an amazing job!!! The view at the top was absolutely spectacular!!!!! We reached the top and ate some sandwiches for our lunch before walking around and exploring the top. The visibility was so great that we could see the outline of Molokai. There is a tunnel at the top leading into an old bunker that was pretty interesting to walk around inside. Part of the way up the stairs there is a spot where the stairs are no longer on the solid ground, but rather form a bridge. It was so fun, although challenging for the kids and dog with their tiny legs, but it was so great!!! I highly recommend this hike to anyone visiting Oahu. We spent a total of about 4 hours round trip on the stairs, but this is MUCH longer than it typically takes. Tiny legs, but slow and steady was safe and still fun!
On March 16, 2016 the family took a trip to visit Pearl Harbor, the Arizona Memorial, and the Pacific Aviation Museum located on Ford Island. These sites are amazing and humbling and beautiful in a horrible way. These historic sites were fun in a small way, in that we got to see all of the planes in the museum and the remnants of such beautiful ships. It also ended up being a quiet learning day for the kids, who at 6 and 4 realize that death happens and our freedom in America comes at a cost. This trip was amazing from a historic perspective. I spent much of the day explaining to the kids what everything meant and why it was so important to understand. The questions of why the attack happened definitely came up, which also proved to be a wonderful experience in teaching such small, innocent people that although such horrible interactions between America and Japan took place, we are working towards cooperation with each other and with a mutual understanding of respect between us because sometimes bad things happen and we cannot hate everyone who is different than us or everyone who does us wrong. This post has a more somber tone to it much like the day itself did, but it was a wonderful, educational, and inspiring trip to see and teach the children from nonetheless.
I read a story about this couple who sold their house and all of their belongings and started to live on their boat. Before the wife would agree though, she required a suitable library to be on the boat. This got me thinking about what I could do in my free time on this live-aboard adventure for a few years! The obvious answer is read!
Just about every time we go to Target, which isn’t really very often, I always seems to get a new book to read! Lugging a whole library of books however doesn’t seem very ideal to have on a boat, primarily for the weight, but also for the potential sogginess that may ensue. Although I am slightly opposed to the idea of kindles since I really enjoy the feeling of holding a book in my hands and the smell and feel of the paper, I do realize the mobility and potential of a kindle or kindle app to outlast books. I have some books that have fallen to pieces which doesn’t happen to digital versions.
I have been trying to find good, inexpensive or free, books through kindle, and have been fairly unsuccessful. I am trying to budget for a $20 allowance for kindle books! This is so exciting for me because I didn’t want to buy any books, mostly because I wouldn’t want to limit myself! Who needs to pay utilities and bills when you can have books, right!? Is that just me? Possibly. I do need to save for a boat however! I would love suggestions of books I should add to my collection, as well as comments as to what you do in your spare time, if you have any.
How did our passion for sailing begin? Where did this idea come from?
I was working on trying to decide on a name for my essential oil “company”. I am a Wellness Advocate through doTERRA essential oils, and my mentor told me that business cards were essential (pun intended) if I want to be an effective sharer and actually see growth in my team. To begin with, I wanted to have a name that would be our email address for all things oils. The beginning of my brand. So I went to Google for help. One of the tips I found was to try to come up with a name that includes your favorite oil. We have so many, that our list was a bit much. Stephen suggested cedarwood, sandalwood, juniper, etc. I said lavender, rosemary, serenity, and lime, just to name a few. We tried a few combinations, but none really seemed to work. Then I landed on Serenity’s Embrace. Serenity oil was our selling point on essential oils since it got both of the kids to sleep with no fuss! I finally had the perfect name! I loved it! But how does any of this matter to sailing? Well, the sound of it just seemed perfect for the name of a boat!
And so it began. This one name created a spark that quickly ignited a fire in me! My thought process shifted within a week to adjust the course of our lives to make this possible. Why don’t we get a boat? Why don’t we get a boat and travel the world? Why don’t we live on a boat and travel the world for years?!?!
Well to start, I have no money for a boat. Also, I have two children, although the more I research, the less I am considering this as a reason to not live aboard. Since this fire has started, I have been reading and researching and thinking and planning and talking to Stephen (and myself, although I try not to do that out loud 😉 ) and trying to write it all down. And thus, this blog was born! My goal is to shove off in 20 years. We are only 25 now, so we should have plenty of time to save enough money by then, although I hope it doesn’t take that long. I’ll keep you updated on our journeys in the meantime!